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Over a year and backsliding

Wow! I did not realize how long it has been since I posted...

My weight is about the same as I posted last time. Not because I didn't lose anymore weight, but because I have gained some back! Embarrassed This is the biggest reason why I haven't been posting, because I have been embarrased. But then I realized that I said I would share everything, so I can't leave this portion out.

My lowest weight was 189. I was doing really well with my exercise and losing weight, but then I had a set-back that I have not been good about getting over. Last November I started having terrible pain in my right side, and lots of vomiting and diarreah - not associated with the gastric bypass. My family has not had much luck with the appendix (3 family members in a 6 month preiod had to have their's out - including my son) so we thought it might be that. But it wound up  being my gall bladder - which is a very common problem after gastric bypass (plus a lovely family history to go with). Also, when the doctor did my gall bladder surgery (Dr. Richard, the ame doc who did my gastric bypass) he found a very large hernia - which is also a common occurence after GBS.

 I had that surgery done, and of course had to take time off from working out to heal. The problem is I haven't gotten stared back, yet! And it makes a huge difference. All the muscles that were finally tightening up have gone to flab again. My doc and the nutrionist had told me how important exercise is after GBS, but I guess I kind of blew it off - and now I'm going to have to have to struggle to get going again.

The other thing that has been bad, is I take Ambien for chronic insomnia. Love the fact that is helps me sleep, but my husband told me that I am very bad about snacking after I take it. The problem with Ambien is that I don't remember anything I do while I'm taking it. So here I am eating stuff, and don't even know it the next day. Sad I am going to check with my doctor about switching meds, because this is a bad problem.

 All in all, I am very discouraged, and know I have no-one to blame but myself. Everthing that is going wrong are things the docs warned me about ahead of time (well, except the Ambien - but who could have guessed that?!) I need to get myself back in gear. To have gone through this surgery, and all that went with it, and still be overweight is not an option!

I'll be back to let you know how my "renewal" is going.

 

weight: 206

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Case gone badly

As I said in my las post, someone who had been reading my blog wrote to tell me of her sister who passed away due to complications from surgery. I wanted to share this with you all, so that everyone understands it does not always go perfectly. One thing I would like to note is that when choosing a Dr., ask his/her patient's what the follow-up care is like. Gastric bypass or any other WLS is a life-long medical change; and your dr, ad well as yourslef should be prepared to handle it! (BTW, many bypass patients wear bracelets identifying them as such - because in the case you are unconcious and should need to be tubed for air by a paramedic - this info is important!)

 

(Here are the e-mails)

My sister-in-law died yesterday, March 18th, after being on
life-support, and being brain dead, after gastric bypass surgery on
March 7th.  The risks of dying after surgery are 1 in 50, and five times
that is the surgeon is inexperienced.  This surgery was from an
experienced, board certified surgeon.  Please inform people of the
dangers of gastric bypass surgery.  There are other option.  Thank you.

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I am so sorry for your loss.

Yes, there is a higher risk for this surgery than others. Mainly because
those of us going under the anesthesia are not in good health to begin
with. I had my living will filled out and ready, just in case. Because I
did not want to leave my husband with hard-to-make decisions on his
hands.

May I post your e-mail on my blog? I would post it anonymously. I do
feel people should know both sides of the story.

Once again, my condolences to you and the rest of your family.

Sincerely,
Michelle Taylor


Michelle,
 
Thank you so much for your reply, and I'm glad that you made it through your surgery without any problems.  My sister-in-law did have other health issue (diabetes and high blood pressure), but we know that her death could have been prevented due to the fact that she had a rupture that was not corrected surgically for almost 2 days.  Her physician did not take her concerns seriously, even though her water, and her pain medicine was coming out of the drain hole on the left side of her body.  She was in unbearable pain, and not able to get any relief.  Her tragic death could have been avoided.  Her left lung was full of fluid for several days, yet the physician did not drain off the fluid or put in a chest tube.  It was not until after she went into cardiac arrest that they inserted a chest tube.  By that time she was brain dead.  She left a great husband and 3 children who miss her very much.  It's very tragic.  Yes, you may post my email, anonymously, as we have arranged for an attorney to look at the case.  The physician was board certified in bariatric surgery.  He had all of the credentials necessary to perform the surgery.  His lack of follow-up on the signs and symptoms of a leak cost my sister-in-law her life.  Thank you for posting my email, and I pray that all will continue to go well for you and all that read about your journey.
 
Sincerely,
 
grieving sister

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Long time, no post: Big Difference!

Well, I didn't realize it had been this long since I had posted. Sorry to all of you who had been trying to follow along. We have had some major family issues come up, and blogging just hasn't found its way into my schedule lately.

Well, first off - I am down to 204 lbs, which is about a 63 pound loss since January 26th! I have gone down 2 clothing sizes (I don't count them like the commercials do - they would say I've gone down 4, since women's clothing is numbered only in even sizes) Hmm [^o)] And I have come off of all of my blood pressure medications. The only meds I still take are those for my depression and migraines - and since that is not tied into my weight, it's possible I may never come off of them. But I'm glad to be off all the rest!

Also, I have a neck! And its long and I can wear necklaces and they look good. And I only have 1 chin. And nobody asks me if I'm pregnant or when I am due (that one always hurt the worst, because people did it innocently.) My wedding rings fit again, too. I haven't been able to wear them for 4 years!

Yesterday was really exciting! We took the kids to six flags for the day. The last time I went I couldn't ride many things, because I was so big - I didn't fit in the seats, or the seatbelts wouldn't fasten. my most embarassing moment was when I went to take my 2 yr old on the tractor truck ride. He was going to ride in the cab and I'd be in back. The girl wouldn't start the ride until my belt was fastened (it wouldn't stretch). I mean, it was a kiddie ride!!! So i was going to get off and let Seth ride it with my 7 yr old daughter, Jordan, but he was terrified about me leaving. Everyone was staring at me! I finally sucked in my breath, sat up as tall as i could, and held the set belt "closed" with my hands. The girl had to see it was actually fastened before she would start it. I unbelted as soon as we turned the corner. It was humiliating!

But , yesterday I could ride everything - and even could tighten some belts up! And I wasn't gasping for air after walking up a hill. My feet did hurt at the end of the day - but they weren't swollen, and my knees were just fine. David (hubby) was actually ready to go home before me!

I'm still vomiting if I eat the wrong thing. (I really miss my salmon). I goofed and ate a sushi roll - the rice didn't make me sick, but the seaweed wouldn't go down - so came back up. So now it's just sashimi for me (and I can eat salmon raw I've discovered.) Steak is still too much, but I can get thinly sliced roast beef from the deli, and it goes down well. Pork - that just depends on whether it is still tender, or if it is too dry. I did get an urge for spaghetti one night (watching my family eat) so thought I'd try a little bit - BAD MOVE!!! I was sick all night and the next day. I also tried to drink a cocktail - my husband made me a kahlua and cream - and I guess between the sugar and the alcohol, I was blitzed. But it was not happy! I felt horrible.

I've had a couple of people write into me to say they've either had WLS, and are doing great, or I had one reader write and say she lost her sister due to complications arising from WLS.

I never want to give the impression that this is an easy surgery, or a decision that should be made lightly. So I asked her permission to post her e-mail to me for all of you to read. I'll blank out the names for her privacy, but I do want everyone to be aware that there are serious risks associated with this surgery. The simple fact is, most surgeons do not like doing surgery on the obese because so much can go wrong anyway. Putting an obese person under anesthesia is always risky. But for some of us the benefits outweigh the risk. Only you can make that decision, however.

So be sure if you are considering this to do lots of research, and if your doctor doesn't require a psychological exam, try to find a counselor familiar with this anyway, to see if you are prepared for the changes. Because as happy as I sound, there have been some rough moments (vomiting, fighting food cravings - the mental kind, stomach cramping). And you really need to be sure you are ready for this - because this is kind of like a hysterectomy; no going back to undo it once its done!

Weight: 204

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No Salmon for Me!

I love seafood, which would normally be a good thing - because it is one of the proteins I can eat right now. So Friday I got a small piece of salmon, marinated it and sautéed it up; trying to keep it very moist. Even though it was a small piece, I was only able to eat about half of it, so I put the rest up to eat later. I reheated the other half yesterday for lunch in the microwave.

I'm not sure if reheating it dried it out too much, if I ate too fast, or if I just didn't chew it well enough; but I got violently sick. I know I didn't overeat, because I had only had a portion of what I had eaten the day before. But while I was eating I had this horrific pain somewhere between what I consider my chest (kind of between my left breast and my sternum) and my esophagus or throat. It felt like someone was trying to tear it in half. It was finally a major relief when I was able to vomit, but by that time my entire body hurt - chest, throat, shoulders and back. Plus I just felt weak and horrible after throwing up (did I mention I hate doing that?)  Needless to say, I think I'll wait a while before I try salmon again, LOL.

On the brighter side, I went to my first support group meeting post-op last Tuesday. I asked the group if I was the only one that felt wiped out after surgery, because everyone's blogs that I had ever read all talked about this amazing amount of energy! Nearly everyone said they were wiped out for the first month to 2 months. Chris - the nurse practitioner for Dr. Richard's group, said to keep in mind that the body is still healing from the surgery itself as well as adjusting to many fewer calories; so it’s natural to have a much lower level of energy. That made me fell a lot better! They also told me that once I started on my vitamin supplements regularly and exercise I would start feeling better.

I did start back to physical therapy - very easy - Brendon is taking it quite slowly. We're going to try pool therapy for a while and see how that goes. I had hoped to stay out of a swimsuit until I'd lost more weight, Oh well... After last week's easy day, I was about wiped though!

So for now, I'm enjoying my sugar free popsicles (because they are the only thing I truly like), and I’m trying to ignore Valentine's Day. Although my husband offered to go buy me one piece of sugar free Godiva, LOL. [<:o)]

Weight: 245  

 

 

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I can EAT!

Woo-hoo! I went for my 1 week post-op visit on Friday (should've posted then; sorry.) Dr. Richard cleared me for starting on soft solid foods; scrambles eggs, cottage cheese, very well chopped chicken or tuna salad, etc. Which is very good for me, because the solid foods have been much less nauseating than the liquids.

But I did make another boo-boo. I was supposed to eat a soft scrambled egg before seeing him on Friday, well I sat down to eat it in front of my e-mail. Yep, I did it again! Man, that is a hard habit to break! I don't have nearly as hard a time at lunch, but I am so used to 1st thing in the morning, eating breakfast while checking e-mail. I ate almost the whole egg before I realized I was really hurting. And then to top things off, after I'm hurting - I look at my plate and think "I hate to waste that..."

That little piece of brainwashing has been with since age 2! LOL, I'm sure you guys know what I mean - starving kids in Africa? or China? I didn't eat those last few bites of egg, because I would have thrown up if I had of, but before surgery it would have been gone. It is still amazing to me thought that I can't finish 1 egg! I used to be able to eat a 2 or 3 egg omelet with cheese and mushrooms and bacon, throw in a little cinnamon toast on the side, some coffee, and maybe juice or fruit. Now I'm thinking about buying small eggs so I won't waste as much. [:D]

I am having a few problems still, not major, and actually more related to the peripherals of surgery. Where I was taking so many IV antibiotics - I have a very annoying yeast infection - not fun! And also my IV site seems to have a minor infection in it, phlebitis. Luckily nothing that requires any more antibiotics (seeing as how I'm allergic to half of them now, and I get yeast infections from the other half. LOL)

On a much more serious note; a friend of mine just lost her husband to a heart attack this weekend. They are in their mid-30s just like me. He had been overweight, but had recently lost weight and was working out and eating better, he had not had WLS, just done it on his own. But apparently the damage had already been done, his arteries were clogged. He had gone to sleep on the couch with a bottle of Rolaids because (apparently) he thought he was just having heartburn.

I write this for several reason; to ask y'all to pray for the Cooper family. It is not easy to lose a spouse (they have a 4 yr old son) at any age, but no-one ever expects a heart attack this young! Also to urge any of you, if you have chest pain, don't just dismiss it as heartburn, pay close attention - it could be something more serious! Is there pain in your left shoulder? Is your left arm numb? Are you haveing any trouble breathing? Is it easier to breathe sitting up than lying down? These are signs and symptoms of a heart attack - DO NOT blow them off! Especially if you are overweight w/ high BP or high cholesterol. Finally, it made me wonder how close I have been to death myself. We always think "It can't happen to me" - that's not just a teenager saying. If I had put this surgery off another year, if I had tried any more diet pills- would David be the one to wake up and find me? It is a frightening thought. And it breaks my heart to try and imagine what my friend is going through. It honestly scares me to try and imagine it. I pray God will help ease her heart's suffering and give her some peace and rest in the coming months.

Everyone take care.

weight: 251 lbs

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Feeling blah

I am beginning to wonder about all those other people's blogs I read that just had tremendous amounts of energy as soon as they got home from the hospital; cause it ain't happenin' here!

It's nothing major, but I just haven't felt real great. I should have known that when ice chips made me nauseous in the hospital that it was going to take a little longer for me. Oh well. I haven't had any vomiting (thankfully) but a good bit of nausea. Also my inner workings still were sounding like a rusty factory everytime I drank something. Top everything off with I was constipated with what I had eaten.

So I called my doc over the weekend, he was not on call a partner was (This was Sunday evening). He said as long as I wasn't vomiting to try to make it thru the night, because the only other option was to put me back in the hospital. (NO HOSPITAL - got to go to the Collective Soul premiere. You know doctors, once they get you in, they won't let you go!) So I call back yesterday, and my Dr. Richard prescribes a med called Reglan for me. I looked it up, it helps the peristalsis in the digestive tract so that you don't stay as nauseous, and in my case also helped with the constipation. It used to be used for people after chemo (until they found some wunder-medicines!) and for people with severe acid reflux to keep things moving down instead of up. The only problem is one of its main side effects is depression - and it says right on it, top of the warnings- if you suffer from depression, this is probably NOT the best medicine for you. But, I go to see the doc on Friday, maybe my stomach will have healed anough by then to do its little wavelike movements on its own.

weight: 256

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My First Mistake

Well, it didn''t take me long to make my fist mistake. i actually did it while I was wrting the "I'm Home" blog earlier.

One of the major rules of "eating" post surgery, is that you should never eat (or drink your protein supplement) while doing something else. Because then you don't pay attnetion to how much food you are putting into your body, and you tend to oevereat. - Which is something a lot of Americans do on a regular basis.

Well, remember that chocolate protein shake that I said tasted so good? It was an 8 oz cup and I was drinking it while writing. The next thing I new, I had drank the whole thing, and felt horribly sick. It took about 2 hours before I felt halfway decent again.

Didn't take long to screw up! But I guess it makes sense that I would make mistakes in the begininning.

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I'm Home

I got to come home this morning. And I swear, having the drain pulled out of me was the worst experience of the whole surgery. It took everything I had not to throw up. It's not that it hurt tremendously (although it didn't feel good) but it felt like she was pulling all of my guts out through this one tiny incision. Blauuughgh! She said my drain was very long...I don't know why it was that long, or if everyone'e is that lone, about 18". But I came home, took some liquid Lortab, crashed out and now am feeling pretty good.

I checked the scale, 261! I've already lost 6 lbs. I would normally blow it off and say< "Oh, water weight." except they've had me on IV fluids, so I don't see how I could have lost water weight. Of course all I ate nothing on Thursday and Friday's meals were made up of 1 cube of sugar free Jell-O, half of a sugar free popsickle, and a 1/2 cup of chicken or beef broth. That's all I could eat before I got full. I would swipe the crystal light lemonade to keep with me to drink on during the rest of the day (0 calories).

I'm trying my first protein shake - chocolate, it's Wonderful! LOL Just something different's great.

Well, i'm still kind of tired so I'll keep it short.

 

weight: 261

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Post Surgery

Well, it’s Friday.  I wasn't much up to writing yesterday.  The surgery went fine and there hasn't been too much pain, but I had a tough time shaking the anesthesia.  It was also keeping me pretty nauseous.  They let me have ice chips, but they kept making me feel slightly ill.  The only real pain I've had is where my drain is, just over my left rib cage.  It's hard lying on my left side.  Oh, and I HATE the Foley catheter.  I got up and walked twice, and haven't had any trouble breathing into the incentive spirometer.

This morning I went for my leakage test.  They took X-Rays while I drank dye.  The dye was nasty, but no leaks.  So some time today I'll get to start on clear liquids again.  AND they'll take the catheter out.  Yippee!  But I have to walk LOTS today.  As long as everything goes OK though, I'll go home tomorrow. 

Oh, yeah...  Dr. Richard brought me an adorable teddy bear!  I've never had a Dr. do THAT before, LOL!

 

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The night before

Well, its almost here.

I should have posted last week about my pre-op, but i got a little distracted by everything. (I'll go back later and describe)

But as for today, i have been on a clear liquid diet (luckily Jell-O counts as liquid). I had my last hurrahs as far as food went yesterday. Nothing major, just a few things I know I won't be able to eat after surgery - corn on the cob, chocolate ice cream (the real stuff), biscuits & gravy.

Today I also have the joy of cleaning out my system, which is why the clear liquid diet. I do nothing but clear liquids all day, then starting at five I had to start drinking this nasty stuff called phosphosoda which is a saline laxative which works very, very well. Since they will be operating on not only my stomach but my intestines as well, it is very important to be as clean as possible. Need I say more?

Anyway, I'm tired, my head hurts, I'm nervous, and I'm stressed. So I'm not going to post anymore tonight.

Hopefully David will be able to post tomorrow to let everyone know how the operation goes.

Starting weight:267 lbs

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Psychological exams

I have noticed a trend in all my past blogs; every single one starts with "OK". I will do my best not to submit y'all to that any more. However, immediately after surgery I promise NOTHING!

More than likely I will write down a few things and have David post them in the blog for me. Somehow I just don't see me typing on the old laptop, in the hospital bed, right after surgery! But I did say I would let everyone know what it was like, so i will do my best to at least get something written down.

Anyway...one of the things that I had to do before approval for (not only insurance) surgery, was get a psychological clearance. Now I already knew that I suffered from depression. It had started up during my pregnancy with Seth, and worsened after he was born, but my PCP was treating me medically for it (I think I was on Zoloft at the time) and I had already made an appointment to see a counselor. I had not at that time planned on seeing a psychiatrist, because Dr. Patel was already prescribing anti-depressants for me, I didn't see the need.

So I let the psychologist, Dr. Steven Walfish know about all of this up front. I also had to fill out paperwork for him with medical history, psychological history, weight & diet history. And then we got into the testing. Part of it was a basic IQ test and then the rest was to test for anger, anxiety, depression, coping skills, and then the last part was directly related to eating habits. The written test took about 1 1/2 hours (though they allotted for 2 1/2) then he went over my paperwork while I grabbed a bite to eat and I came back and had an interview with him. Now realize I didn't know what all I was being tested on, and I still don't know which questions tested what emotions.

In talking he seems to jump subjects on me a little bit, I'm assuming he's covering the topics that concerned him the most. The one thing I found amusing was the first thing he said was, "Well, you're very intelligent." The way he put emphasis on the very almost made it seem like he was surprised. I'm not sure if it was because I was a stay-at-home Mom, or because most people don't think fat people are smart, or because I am blonde...but I was just amused that he seemed so taken aback (Of course I found out later how high I scored).

The other thing that came out (not so amusing) was he asked me if I had ever been abused. I had put "no" on the paper, so I'm not sure why he asked again, but I stuttered. I told him I had never been abused or sexually abused, but I had been date-raped in college. He said, "That is sexual abuse." I kept trying to explain to him I meant I had never been abused On-going, and he kept trying to explain to me that it didn't matter, the rape counted. He asked me where I thought I had scored on the anger scale. I said I had a pretty bad temper, I tended to hold stuff in and then BOOM! So I figured I probably scored about 75. He then asked me where I thought I scored on anxiety. I said I thought that was worse, since I had been having panic attacks and such, so probably 80-85. He informed me I scored 95% on the anger scale and 99% on the anxiety/depression scale.

As soon as he said my numbers I knew I wasn't getting my surgery. I was actually pretty sure I wasn't getting it from the moment we started talking about the rape, but I had held out some hope. I was fighting very hard not to cry. I said, "So I guess I don't qualify for the surgery, huh?" he told me not right now, that he wanted me to be under the care of a psychiatrist rather than a primary care doctor. He thought with my level of anxiety/depression that it was very much called for, and would help tremendously. He also said he could re-evaluate me after at least 6 months of therapy with a psychiatrist. I tried to reason with him. I told him that I was trying to get my body healthy so I could start moving better because I thought that would help with my depression. He agreed with me some. He said the problem was, my depression was so severe at that point that the extended recovery time, and the surgery itself would make the depression even worse. Exercising does help with depression, but I wouldn't be ready fr it right away, and I would be down and in pain which would only exacerbate things. The other things that concerned him was that I am an extremely emotional eater. I would binge eat horrible to deal with emotional issues, and he did not believe the surgery alone would be enough to deter me from those eating habits; even with the vomiting and dumping syndrome as a negative reinforcement. He felt I needed the counseling to deal with those emotional eating issues first and then have the surgery.

Although I was not happy at the time, it was a very good move. Dr. Walfish was right on the mark. A few months later I had a very bad breakdown and wound up self-admitting to an inpatient facility that my psychiatrist (yes I got one) worked near. My son (who has Asperger's syndrome) his psychiatrist is the head Dr. there, so I felt totally comfortable going in, and requested my son's Dr. for my own, since he knew me. I was in-patient for 3 days. It gave me time to rest - with no extra stress, meet others who were suffering from severe depression just like me (which was very refreshing - having someone who knew exactly what I was going through. My husband is a wonderful and caring man, but he doesn't suffer from depression and couldn't fully understand what I was feeling. These people I met did. It made me feel less alone). And it also gave me a lot of coping skills. It also gave the Dr.s a chance to look at ALL of my medicines and change some things around. I followed up with a 2 week out-patient program, which was kind of like going to school; 9 in the morning to 2 in the afternoon. That just reinforced the coping skills we had started on in the hospital.

I now attend EA (Emotions Anonymous) meetings once a week. It's sort of like AA, except there is no addiction aspect to it. We follow the same 12 steps, just focusing on dealing with emotional issues instead. After all, most substance abuse generally stems from emotional issues anyway as a form of coping.

Sorry, off topic. But as y'all saw from my first post, I did go back for my re-evaluation and passed. My psychiatrist and my counselor both sent letters to Dr. Walfish letting him know what progress I had made (and yes, we all let him know about the hospitalization.) He seemed very pleased with the fact that I had a plan to cope with the binging urges- which is to DO SOMETHING!

Seriously, the plan is to take my mind off of food AND whatever has caused me to want to binge in the first place. I am now writing for a website, I'm working on some songs, a (possible) book about my depression, and I have developed an interest in a couple of different crafts. If none of those are capable of distracting me, then I get up and leave the house. Sounds simple, but before I had no plan. I just ate...and watched TV or read. I've still got to read though, there is no way I'm giving that up! : )

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Insurance

OK, this is the fun part! However, unless you want to pay anywhere from $20,000 and up for your surgery all on your lonesome, it is a neccesary evil to fill out your insurance's paperwork exactly as they wish it to be filled out.

My insurance is Blue Cross/Blue Shield of GA PPO. Now BC/BS is doing away with covering weight loss surgery (or so the rumor goes), but I am lucky enough to still qualify because the company my husband works for has a contract with them that does not expire until next year. Plus I did get my paperwork in before the end of 2005. I'm not sure which one is the one that covered my butt, but whichever way, I'll take it. But don't give up just because you have BC/BS, your company may have an elongatd contract with them, or they may get so much backlash from this (legally) that they re-institute it. It never hurts to try.

Even if you don't have BC/BS, what I filled out will give you a general idea of what all you'll need to be armed with. You may need less or you may need more. (Oh a lot of this stuff I had to fill out for consideration for the surgery to begin with. They won't just do this surgery on anybody who want it. You have to prove it is needed!)

  1. A list of all diets you have attempted in the past 3 years along with weight loss and regain (some of these must be able to be validated by either a Dr. or a program coodinator such as Weight Watchers, Jenny Craig, or a gym program that you joined)
  2. A signed letter from your primary care physiscian saying you have his/her approval for this surgery.
  3. A signed letter from your primary care physician saying you are cleared for this surgery (I found out there is a difference between the 2, which cost me almost 2 months of waiting time! Urrrgh)
  4. A Dr.s (primary care or gastric surgeon) stating you have BMI of 40 or more (usually about 100 lbs overweight) OR BMI of 35 with one or more Co-morbidities (such as Type 2 diabetes, high blood pressure, heart problems, high cholesterol, joint problems, etc.)
  5. A test for sleep apnea
  6. A psychological exam (I'll tell y'all more about my experience with this)
  7. Blood tests, including a thyroid test (to rule out weight gain due to thyroid problems)

I am sure there were a couple of other things, too; but these were the biggies I remember. The weight & diet history are the really important thing - if you turn in a list of diets saying you tried to eat less, then you'll never get approved! You have to have some proof that you have attempted dieting. Anything that can show that you've attempted to lose weight - gym membership receipts, logs from gym trainers, receipts from medication purchases, copies of prescriptions for weight loss medication, any medical records that your Dr. can produce, etc. My primary care doc was so helpful, the office provided me with an entire copy of my past 3 years of medical records. I went through them and any time he and I discussed wieght, and weight loss measures, I highlighted that and my weight taken on that day and turned that in.

Just be sure you have ALL of the information together that your insurance company requires before you turn it in, or you will be rejected, and have to start over. It may seem like it taks forever to get the stuff together (believe me I know!), but from the people I've talked to who have had to appeal and turn paperwork in a 2nd time, it takes even longer. So don't get too rushed and antsy in the beginning and do it wrong!

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Nutritionist

Okay - here's most of the info the nutritionist gave us. Her spiel probably took up more time than anyone else's, and with good reason. My stomach is going from (well I probably don't want to know how big) to down to the size of my thumb. The basic rule of bypass surgery is protein first, so your body won't "eat" all of its protein stores (muscle mass), and instead will use up its fat stores. Since the stomach is so small to begin with, and is recovering from major surgery, the way they recommend is by using protein shakes. Not like the ones you get in the grocery stores, those usually have loads of sugar and not enough protein. According to the handout she gave us, the supplement should have at least 30 grams of protein and less than 3 grams of carbohydrate per serving. They gave us a couple of websites that let you order samples, www.vitalady.com and www.wlssuccess.com . So far the ones I have liked the best have been the Champion brand chocolate (mix with a lot of ice and its like a milkshake), Nectar brand very berry cherry (use about an ounce more water than they call for and ice in a blender - its like crystal light, but has a bit of a "hot" aftertaste if you don't use enough water), and then I haven't tried this, but everyone raves about Isopure brand vanilla - because they say you can add all sorts of sugar free syrups and flavorings to it and its a great base.

Also, since you can't eat very much - vitamins and supplements are very important; but they can't be taken in pill form like normal because 1. you couldn't swallow them - you'd just throw them back up, and 2. you couldn't digest them properly even if they would go down. (That's part of the process of GBS - malabsorption to a certain extent) So all supplements have to be cheweble, liquid, crushable, or dissolvable. They recommend a multivitamin, iron (ferrous fumerate 325mg/day, or chelated iron 30mg/day - because they are more easily absorbed and don't irritate the stomach as much as ferrous sulfate), Calcium (calcium citrate 500mg/ 3x day - calcium and iron cannot be taken at the same time), and Vitamin B-12 (this is the one that dissolves under the tongue)

Also, we have to be very careful about chewing. If food is not chewed enough, it will not go down through the much smaller opening - and will just be thrown up. One thing that kind of freaked me out was chewing gum. She told us sugar free chewing gum was OK as long as we were't prone to swallowing it. Now I am terrible about swallowing gum, especially if I forget to spit it out before I go out on stage to sing, its a very bad habit that I never think about. When I asked her what happens if you swallow gum she informs me they have to do an open surgery to remove the gum from the stomach, because it will not go down, and it will completely block off the passageway from the stomach to the intestines! [+o(]

After surgery it is a slow progression to eating normally again (but you do get there, if in much smaller quantities, and you do tend to eat more along the lines of a diabetic or a low-carb dieter).

Day after surgery - clear liquids

2nd day - add full liquids (including protein shake)

one week after surgery, after clearance from doctor start soft proteins: soft eggs, cottage cheese, unsweetened yogurt, soft fish - chicken - turkey (MUST be moist and chopped very well), cooked beans (lentil type, not green) - and add vitamins

6 weeks after surgery, add soft vegetables and fruits - no leafy greens or fruit skins or citrus, also can add small amounts of complex carbohydrates. Protein always comes first though.

6 months after surgery, add red meat and raw, leafy vegetables

 

Major things to keep in mind:

Protein first, veggies 2nd, fruits 3rd, carbs last

No caffeine - causes dehydration and increases appetite, My Dr. also says no carbonated drinks because the carbonations can swell the stomach pouch

Water- VERY IMPORTANT - 64 oz per day - but, you can't drink it all at once, and you can't gulp. You have to sip on it constantly throughout the day. Also, you cannot eat and drink at the same time, because the liquid helps to push the food through the digestive tract more quickly, making you hungry again more quickly.

Eat less than 5 g of sugar - otherwise you risk "Dumping syndrome" - this is not vomiting (although oftentimes you wish you would). Diabetics may recognize the symptoms from when their body overloads them with insulin. Because that's exactly what happens after this surgery. You get light-headed, pulse starts racing, you feel flushed, start feeling sick to your stomach, bowels start cramping, and often feel like you are going to pass out. Usually you need to lie down until the dizziness passes - and then you often will be sick to your stomach with diarrhea. I am familiar with this because this is what my body does during panic attacks. I cannot imagine bringing one on intentionally! Vomiting usually occurs if you hae eaten too quickly, not chewed your food well enough, or eaten something that your stomach has not healed enough for. That's one reason many post-op patients give the advice "Try new foods at home- not at a party or restaurant!" But, just because a food makes you sick one time, does not mean that 2 or 3 weeks down the line your stomach won't be ready for it. So don't completely mark it off your list. The nutritionist mentioned keeping a food diary of what foods you can and cannot tolerate. You might list what dates you tried the foods that made you ill, then try them again a month later.

OK, I'll sign off on this one, I think I listed the most important stuff. You'll fet the whole spiel from your own Dr., and every Dr. may not have the exact same guidelines (every other person I know drinks diet sprite!) But since this is who I chose to go with, I'll follow their advice.

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1st Appointment

OK, so my 1st appointment is actually 3 hours long! WOW! But...it's not at the Dr.s office, it's back at the hospital at their weight loss surgery clinic. Dr.s Proctor & Richard do so many of these surgeries that NorthEast Georgia Medical Center in Gainesville has assigned an entire floor and surgical unit of one of their satellite hospitals - Lanier Park Hospital - to do nothing but weight loss surgery. Which is great! It means they have equipment neccessary to handle patients that weigh in the 500 and up range (some hospitals can't accomodate that, even thought they do these surgeries - go figure!) They also have a dedicated nursing staff specially trained in handling patients who undergo these surgeries, and their nutrition counselor, physical therapist, kitchen, etc. Things that we as patients usually take for granted, but make a big difference.

I used to work in surgery back in 1996 in Mississippi (as a surgical tech). I remember we had to do a simple biopsy on a gentleman who weighed somewhere in the range of 380-400 lbs. That simple surgery was not simple at all, because we didn't have the proper equipment to handle a person that large! Normally a surgical table is "grounded" because surgeons often use a tool nicknamed a "bovie" which is an electrocautery used to burn and cut to cut down on bleeding (normally on the inside only, it is not good for skin use because of scarring except in small areas like mole removal). We had to push 2 gurneys together to accomodate this poor man, and they were not grounded! Which meant we had to bring in more people to figure out how to ground the tables to safely use the electro-tool without electrocuting everyone working on him. And/or not use the tool and have him lose way more blood than was neccessary for a simple biopsy.

So like I said, having an entire floor of a hospital and a surgical unit dedicated to overweight people is a HUGE plus when considering gastric bypass.

So I go into the meeting and there were about 4 or 5 other people in there. I was a little disappointed in that. I wanted to talk to someone 1 on 1, but I sat down and waited for everything to start. First we met the nurse who was in charge of the unit. She handed us these gigantic 3 ring binders full of papers. I'm flipping through - there's phone #s, diet requirements, surgical explanations, vitamin requirements, do's and don'ts, etc, etc. She starts explaining everything in the book to us. Then she brings in the nutritionist (Who BTW is drop dead gorgeous, and I doubt has ever had to lose a pound in her life!) Admittedly though, several of the nurses that work there have gone through the procedure and are great testimonies for the doctors! The nutritionist, however, could be on America's Next Top Model - and she is wonderfully sweet, which makes me want to kill her even more. So she starts explaining how we'll be eating post-op. And about vitamins and supplements and protein shakes. And about dumping syndrome (yahoo~) And about vomiting and all the lovely other side effects that can happen if we don't follow the rules. On top of it all she explains that it is possible to gain weight IF you don't follow the rules, too. I'll talk deeper about her stuff in a whole separate post.

Then we meet the physical therapist who starts talking about exercise and how it is very important, because since the body goes into almost a "starvations" effect from the surgery, if you don't exercise regularly, your body will try to take your muscle instead of your fat. Not the affect we want! More about him later.

THEN we get to meet the insurance lady-da da da dum! We get a HUGE stack of papers to fill out for our insurance companies - I'm talking about 20 pages. And if you don't fill out this stuff right or include everything, they send it back and say "Do Over!" or worse "Rejected!" and then YOU get to pay approximately $20 - 30,000 for this surgery (or maybe more depending on where you live). Once again I'll do a whole post on the insurance stuff.

But I'm about to keel over on my keyboard, so I'm calling it a night. Write more later!

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Getting Started

notOK, so I decided to get serious about the surgery. My friend "C" had recommended the website: www.obesityhelp.com, which i had checked out before, but this time I registered and started looking for a doctor. I found one in Gainesville that had tons of great referrals and was covered by my insurance, Dr. Dan Proctor. I called his office to find out what I needed to do to get started. The woman who is the liason for their weight loss surgery program informed me I would need to attend a group informational meeting first. So I signed up for a time and waited. While waiting I checked out every "personal story" book on WLS that I could find.

I know a lot of people are really impressed with Carnie Wilson (from the group Wilson-Phillips, and The Beach Boys' Brian Wilson's daughter), but personally I found her book not to my taste at all. I thought she was whiny and willing to blame everyone else for every problem she had - but of course she cussed like a sailor (pardon to all the non-cussing sailors!), and that tends to turn me off anyway. So I may just be biased. A lot of people are very inspired by her. The book I found more helpful was by Susan Maria Leach called Before and After: Living and Eating Well After Weight Loss Surgery. She is a very down to earth writer, very humorous, adn just tells it like it is. She also has a recipe book out, and everything sounded wonderful! The few things I tried from her book were great. Gastric Bypass Surgery: Everything You Need to Know to Make an Informed Decision is a more clinical book, but has great info about the different types of surgery and is really good for getting started (I suggest checking this one out of the library and buying Ms. Leach's book!)

Anyway, the time for the meeting came. I went to the hospital conference room where it was being held and was actually a little shocked to find myself one of the smaller persons in the room (not a typical occurrence!) Most of the info I already knew. I was impressed with some of the ideas he had though. What really got to me was when he mentioned something about not fitting into the rides on Six Flags! It was like he read my mind. He talked to us for about 2 hours, showed us slides of how the procedure could be done, talked to us about nutrition, counseling, and follow-up. It was very informative. At the end of the meeting, if we still thought we could adhere to all of the programs stipulations, we could sign up for a more in-depth meeting. I signed up right away!

 

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